Sunday, January 10, 2010

About childhood

We have memories about this life, though there is no way for us to keep in memory every single day of this life. In most cases we store in mind the most striking events and the most important people, or people who did something we can’t forget. The elder we get the more things we store in our minds, but things are way different when we are kids. People never remember their childhood till they are five. Doctors say that five is the very age when our memory starts keeping those events and people because this is when people gain the ability for analyzing. Though, analyzing is not the only reason for people to remember something. No natter on that common fact about five years old children there are still people who can remember themselves at three or four or something, but, they remember only those events that stoke them greatly. And, according to this we may say that mind of children keeps and stored emotions only and I guess emotions is the only way for kids to percept and cognize this world. In most cases we have only those memories about our childhood that deal with some emotionally striking events.

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Memories are what life is

It is interesting to realize what this life is and there is another theory that may be another answer for the question. So, this life we have is nothing more than memories. See, we have this day and this day is not eternal just like the day before and just like the day after this one. In other words every second will pass and another will come. But we know nothing about the next second and changes it will bring with. So, what is before is unknown for people and all we know are things in past. This life we have is nothing more than memories in our head and it is all we have and it is all we know about life. That is why people keep diaries and photos, because they need something to remind that they are and they were and there were people they love and people they care about. This is what this life is. Memories are all we have because we can’t feel the future and we can’t bring the past back we can only hope for those days we will have and those days we already had. And that is why every single memory is so precious for people

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Forming memories


There are certain occasions that are of great importance, and you want to make sure that these become wonderful memories to look back on throughout your life. Times like graduations, weddings, vacations, births and holidays are all occasions that form important memories and should be treated as truly special events. Documenting these events takes more than just a camera.

 Forming lasting memories means paying attention to details. If you keep a journal and take pictures at special events, you may be able later to capture these special memories in albums with more detail. Also, of course, it’s important to avoid conflict at these events. Forming good memories means avoiding bad memories as much as possible. Changing the subject when an old argument comes up is a good idea at any kind of special occasion. Let them fight it out next week, not at Grandma’s birthday party.

 Keeping your good memories alive can take care and nurturing. When you look back, don’t focus on the bad things, like the way Uncle Ed got drunk. Focus on the heartwarming moments, the things that you love most about your family and friends. Capturing and nurturing you special memories will leave you with many wonderful things to think about in times when you’re down. We remember the things that we choose to remember, and if you find yourself only calling up bad memories, try to focus on the positive to preserve the good memories of your life and your loved ones. Why dwell on the bad, when there is so much positive to carry along in life?

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Friday, February 27, 2009

Different Memories

Have you ever thought why it is hard for people to make great changes in their life? Things around us are connected with different life epochs and with different people. An old book-case was the first thing bought together. It still keeps that joy of the moment when you brought it into your almost empty flat and put in the corner. You were putting books on its shelves and life seemed to be great. Since that moment your books are still in perfect order.
Books, pictures in your album and small souvenirs brought from your week-end trip resemble of your emotions at these days. Happy faces, broad smiles and open-hearted relations in the family always are willingly shown to our guests.
Sad memories are always hidden in a far corner of your soul. You never demonstrate them; you try to forget offence and pain. You try to get rid of hard emotions but they come back at nights and whisper that your life is not cloudless.
Pharmacologists try to invent a medicine that helps to forget dark episodes of your life. Just take a tablet, and your memory will be free of quarrels, accidents, offensive words you heard one day.
Only happy faces, only bright colours, only good memories.
Would you like to take such a medicine? 
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